It is luck, then. That is what you will blame. That is

what you will learn: that it has no meaning. It was not 

because you needed to become a better person; it will not 

teach you anything about yourself. It happened because

sometimes bad things happen and sometimes they happen

to you. It will deny you the chance to find purpose in it; there 

is nothing to believe in except that it does not make sense.

- Grace Alvino